Gratitude, Again

Melissa portraitI haven’t mentioned Mussar practice in months….it seems like it is time to begin again. Repetition is one of the essential parts of this practice. You must identify traits you want to work on and then revisit them again and again. Although I am always grateful to TE, the end of the year seems like a wonderful time to thank all of the TE community for their willingness to participate, give-back, pay forward, lead, follow and belong to an extraordinary group of people.

If we include holiday services, Religious School events, social events and fund raisers, we have had something going on almost every week of the year. Thank you to the many TE members who led each of these projects. Thanks to Hilary, Ariette, Jodi, Kim and the Rabbi for providing the professional framework within which we volunteer. Thanks to the Board, the Executive Committee, all the Committee chairs and members who kept us on track. The daily/weekly activities are vital to our strength as a community.  Thanks to the “worker bees” who have kept our congregational life humming: Shabbat dinners- Randi Rubin Rodriguez and Fran Grodzinski, High Holy Day kiddushim- Robin Levine-Ritterman, Passover seder- Lily Katsovich & Olga Marcus, Music- Laurel Shader and the band, organizing Friday night Onegs- Barbara Goldhamer, creating the Shofar- Caryn Shaffer and Jen Poulsen, and getting the Shofar out- the Larkins.

One Campus: We are “One” and done with the project. From digging the foundation to erecting the building, to re-landscaping the grounds, to affixing the mezuzah, to taking down the old House–we did it!  We have moved on to what the synagogue is really about: people not buildings.

Going Green: This last year we have put up solar panels, replaced our bulbs with LED ones and put in an energy efficient HVAC. We continue to find ways to shrink our carbon footprint. And then, of course, we love the real green of our lovely grounds!

Tikkun Olam: It has been another vibrant year with our second blood drive, amazing success with the Food drive, our yearly school Hanukkah basket program,  our Martin Luther King school activity, our 7th year doing Abraham’s Tent and the resettlement of our first refugee  family as part of JCARR.

Amazing Adult Education: We have had a successful year of small group learning, speakers, outings to plays and exhibits, a weekend of learning, and films. A special thank you to Bennet Graff for leading the new series on Jewish short stories

Men’s Club and Sisterhood: These revitalized groups have had book clubs, lectures and outings. They have also provided generous monetary gifts to TE for the Memorial Boards, college scholarship, and other necessary TE items.

Leave A Legacy: Our thriving legacy program is one of the best in the community.

All this help has made my life as President easy. It’s allowed me to concentrate not just on money but on doing the right thing: on building and sustaining relationships, so that we to change our own lives, or community and the world.

 

 

 

 

 

Statement by the Clergy of Orange on the Massacre in Orlando, FL

yizkor candle animatedWith sadness in our hearts, we condemn with one voice the senseless violence that took place in Orlando, Florida last Saturday night.

The heinous acts committed by a single gunman on Saturday night were an attack on all civilized people. They were an attack on fundamental American values. They were an attack on our shared belief that every human being – regardless of race, religion or sexual orientation – is a child of God and equally endowed by God with dignity and worth.

We mourn the lives lost and express our deepest condolences to their families. We hold close those who survived the massacre and are clinging to their lives this very day. We join with the families and friends who are grieving, hoping, and trying to cope with this tragedy.  We are profoundly grateful to the brave officers, first responders, tireless physicians and nurses and all who assisted during the crisis. Their unselfish, life-saving actions reflect what is best in those who value our common humanity.

May the tragic deaths of so many innocent people redouble our determination to reject hatred and bigotry in this country.  May it redouble our determination to remove the scourge of gun-violence from our beloved land.

May the verses of scripture be fulfilled at last:

“I will bring peace to the land; you shall lie down and no-one shall terrorize you” (Leviticus)

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment.  And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ (Matthew)

“One who slays a soul…  shall be as if he had slain all mankind; and one who saves a life shall be as if he had given life to all mankind” (Quran)

 

The Orange Clergy Association

Sheikh Dr. Mohammad Abdelati, New Haven Islamic Center

Rev. Tim Boerger, Zion Evangelical Lutheran Church

Fr. Eugene Charman, Holy Infant Roman Catholic Church

Rabbi Michael Farbman, Temple Emanuel of Greater New Haven

Rev. Peter Orfanakos, St. Barbara Greek Orthodox Church

Rev. Diana Rogers, The Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd

Fr. Joseph Sidera, Holy Infant Roman Catholic Church

Rev. Suzanne Wagner, Orange Congregational Church

Rabbi Alvin Wainhaus, Congregation Or Shalom

High Holy Days 5777 (2016) at Temple Emanuel

In this post you will find the details of all the upcoming High Holy Day services and events. If you would like to celebrate the High Holy Days with Temple Emanuel and you are currently NOT a member of  the Temple, please get in touch with TE office or our membership committee.

Schedule of Services

SELICHOT SERVICE

Saturday, September 24 – 7:00 pm

B’nai Israel Synagogue in Southbury, CT

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EREV ROSH HASHANAH

Sunday, October 2 – 8:00 pm

Oneg to follow

ROSH HASHANAH FIRST DAY SERVICE

Monday, October 3 – 10:00 am

Children’s Service – 9:45 am

Kiddush and Tashlich to follow

ROSH HASHANAH SECOND DAY SERVICE

Tuesday, October 4 – 10:00 am

EREV YOM KIPPUR SERVICE (KOL NIDREI)

Tuesday, October 11 – 8:00 pm

YOM KIPPUR MORNING SERVICE

Wednesday, October 12 – 10:00 am

Children’s Service – 9:45 am

Special Study Session with Rabbi Steinberg “Jewish History: The Modern Jew as Converso.” – 1:00 pm approx.

YOM KIPPUR AFTERNOON SERVICE (MINCHA)

Thursday, October 12 – 4:00 pm

Followed by Yizkor (approximately 5:30 pm), Neila, and Havdalah

Break-the-Fast to follow

EREV SUKKOT

Sunday, October 16

3:30 pm – Sukkot Family Program, Sukkah Building, Potluck Dinner in the Sukkah

6:30 pm – Erev Sukkot Service

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Monday, October 17 (office will be closed)

EREV SIMCHAT TORAH and CONSECRATION of our newest Hebrew School students.

Sunday, October 23 – 6:00 pm

SIMCHAT TORAH

Monday, October 24 (office will be closed)

Summer at Temple Emanuel – Shabbat services at 7:30 pm

Temple Emanuel Shabbat services under the stars, September 9, 2011
Temple Emanuel Shabbat services under the stars, September 9, 2011

Summer is the time to enjoy the sunshine, to slow down a little and to unwind. Shabbat services over the summer (July – August) begin at 7:30 pm and tend to be quite informal. TE members take an active role in conducting many of the summer services, so if you’d like to try your hand at it, or have musical talents to offer, do let Rabbi Farbman know!

(Please note that Shabbat on the Beach on July 29 is at 7pm)

Shabbat on the Beach! Friday, July 29 at 7:00 pm

Shabbat_on_the_Beach2015Our ‘Shabbat under the stars’ services are always a great opportunity to enjoy the beautiful TE grounds and be outside. This year, we continue the wonderful new tradition that began two years ago: Shabbat on the beach! On July 29 at 7pm head over to the Walnut Beach in Milford (113 E Broadway, Milford, CT 06460) – don’t forget a beach blanket or a chair, and bug repellent just in case! We will sing together and greet shabbat by the water. Please spread the word and invite your family and friends to join us!

 

P.S. If it rains, Shabbat services will at Tempe Emanuel – but we hope for a beautiful night under the stars!

Erev Shavuot and Confirmation Service – June 11 at 7:00 pm

shavuot ayizkor candle animatedPlease join us on Saturday, June 11 at 7:00 pm for the Erev Shavuot service and Confirmation ceremony.  We will celebrate the Festival of Shavuot and the giving and receiving of the Torah with this year’s Confirmand (Olivia Steigbigel) who will be leading the service.  Don’t miss this special service, which will also include Yizkor (memorial service).

IsraelFest – June 5, 2-6 pm at the JCC

1100 Israel Fest4x3 Monitor_050316IsraelFest New Haven | Sunday, June 5 | 2-6 p.m. The Jewish Federation and synagogues of greater New Haven have come together to celebrate the anniversary of Israel’s Independence with this community-wide event. IsraelFest New Haven will feature Israeli carnival food, educational booths, dancing, games, and the premier Israeli band, Yemen Blues. The festival will run from 2-4 p.m. and the concert from 4-6 p.m. This event is free and open to all!

Annual Meeting, June 5 at 10 am

TE_logo_smallThe Annual Meeting Notice has been mailed to all TE members.  We look forward to seeing you all at the Annual Meeting on Sunday, June 5 – Coffee and bagels at 9:30 am, meeting starts at 10:00 am in the Social Hall. Come and vote for TE Officers and Directors and the TE budget, hear reports on TE happenings, and voice your ideas. Absentee ballots will be provided by the TE Office upon request.