My First Column (Is it Doric, Ionic or Corinthian?) By Bruce Spiewak, Temple Emanuel President

Bruce SpiewakFor the micro and the macro families of the Temple Emanuel Community, this certainly has been a season filled with festive events and new beginnings.  We have collectively celebrated our first 50 years as a congregation, and at the same time, we welcome the beginning of the next half century, with all of the excitement, enthusiasm and spirit that was characteristic of the special events we have recently shared.  Many of us have celebrated B’nai Mitzvot, the demarcation of the transformation of our children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews and friends into young Jewish adults, who inherit the mitzvah of continuing our Jewish faith and traditions.  Who among us has not attended or related to a 2012 Graduation, be it from nursery school, lower school, middle school, high school, college, graduate school, or something else special?   Graduation…… otherwise known as “Commencement.”

 As we begin the new fiscal year, the second half century, life as a Jewish adult, experiencing the world of a higher level of education, a new job, the birth of a child or grandchild, marriage, retirement, or whatever respective new beginning each of us is facing, we each have an opportunity to ask ourselves, “what will I do now that I have not done before to help myself, my family, my community, the world, in a meaningful positive way?”  A major part of response to that question is a process which involves an evaluation of where we have been, and how we have arrived at this time and place in the present, as well as whether or not we like this condition.  This process then helps provide the perspective to guide the decision making process of creatively moving forward.  We must balance the time and effort expended on evaluation with the need to encourage progress.  This is not always an easy task, and sometimes blurs the difference between planning and procrastination.  As Davy Crockett said, “Be always sure you are right, then go ahead.”  However, that must be tempered by the statement, as sometimes attributed to Voltaire, “The perfect is the enemy of the good.”

I encourage each and every one of us to begin the process on multiple levels.  With respect to the Temple Emanuel Community, there is an opportunity to share your skills, knowledge, capability and experience with the rest of us, by increasing your participation on some plane.  One example is the opportunity to volunteer to participate as a member (or leader) of one of our various committees.  Whether you are a “new” TE member or a “long term” member, think about your own resources and view them in the perspective of our TE Family.  You need not become a full-time volunteer – your time is valuable, and whatever amount of it is available to share is welcomed!  Take a look at the inside cover of the Temple Emanuel Directory – many of the standing committees are listed there.  If you identify a need for which there is not yet a committee, perhaps we can form a new one!  It has recently occurred to me that we should formalize a resource that has been around informally for years, and which I have witnessed as it provides historical wisdom and direction to our Temple.  Let’s form a Past Presidents’ Council, (with Lew Shaffer as the Chair?) to meet occasionally and discuss issues that become important to Temple Emanuel as time goes by.  What’s your idea?  Everyone’s ideas are welcome, so feel free to share them with me at president@TempleEmanuel-gnh.org, and don’t be surprised if I ask you to help with the follow through!

Building the Future…

Back in December I attended the biennial conference of the Union for Reform Judaism in Washington, DC. Six thousand people, amazing atmosphere, learning, camaraderie… When I bumped into Eisner Camp’s director, he handed me a large button which had the Camp logo and the following phrase: ‘Because of Camp I…’ and invited me to come up with my own answer and to wear it with pride. I paused for a moment, and then I wrote ‘because of camp I know the future leaders of our movement’.

Throughout the conference, people stopped to look at my button and nodded approvingly; someone even remarked, ‘I wish I said that on mine!’ Much as I enjoyed the compliment, I felt a little embarrassed. My comment was, in fact, quite literal – I was ordained at the Leo Baeck College in London and am a relatively recent ‘import’ into this country. I do not have the kind of connections with the young leaders of our youth movement I had in England and in the former Soviet Union as a result of my many years of involvement. So for me, the two weeks I get to spend at camp are not just about summer, informal education, and excited Jewish children – it is also about getting to know the song leaders and camp counselors, and the rabbinic and cantorial students who spend their summer at camp. It is about learning what matters to them, what motivates them and what the future holds for our people and our movement.

My comment was very personal, but it resonated with everyone who also happens to think that camp, one of the strongest Jewish identity builders, is a place to get to know the future leaders. This is why, along with many of my colleagues, I go to camp for two weeks every summer!

The future is very much on my mind as I write this column – especially the future of Temple Emanuel. The celebrations of our 50th anniversary continue to reverberate in my mind, especially as I continue to enjoy the wonderful collages currently displayed in our swing space. Looking back at the pioneering spirit of TE fills me up with pride, but also reminds me of the incredible responsibility I feel for helping TE continue to reach its true potential every year, every month, every week.

The last few years of transition have given us the opportunity to take a closer look at who we are, what we can achieve, and what we should aspire to be able to do. We are a small congregation with limited resources and incredible spirit – what at camp and youth movement gatherings is referred to as ‘ruach’. TE’s got it! We have a disproportionately large number of highly committed volunteers who make TE what it is – a truly inspiring community. What we need is to find a way to support all of our wonderful volunteers, to have our office serve as much more than just an office, but as a true hub of TE community.

I am delighted to welcome Nancy Weber to her newly-created position of Temple Administrator. She brings with her wonderful organizational skills and creativity, as well as a life-long love and commitment to Temple Emanuel. As we begin our second half century, as we begin to build our future, we have a wonderful team to carry us forward.

That’s the future we can all rejoice in!

High Holy Days 2012 at Temple Emanuel

High Holidays? Already??

It’s never too early to begin planning! The High Holidays this year begin on the evening of Sunday, September 16th. There are numerous ways to be involved: from doing a reading in English or Hebrew to dressing a scroll to parking a car or helping with food preparation. Temple Emanuel prides itself on its “can-do” self-run nature and now is the time to come forward and volunteer. The High Holidays will feel all that more special when you are actively involved in our wonderful community. I will be reaching out to the entire community over the next few months for “volunteers” but you can sign up now by using this easy to use online form.

You can forward your questions about High Holy Days to  TE’s Vice President, Dr. Melissa Perkal hh@templeemanuel-gnh.org

 

 

Musician-in-Residence Weekend, March 24 and 25, 2012 with Cantor Jeffrey Klepper

One of the most renowned and respected musicians in contemporary American Judaism, Cantor Jeffrey Klepper joined Temple Emanuel’s 50th Anniversary celebration as Musician-in-Residence on March 24 and 25, 2012.

Cantor Klepper has performed throughout the USA and Israel, in England, France, the Netherlands and Russia. His original songs, such as the universally beloved “Shalom Rav,” are known throughout the Jewish world.

One of a handful of contemporary Jewish musicians responsible for changing the sound of American synagogue music, Cantor Klepper is a champion of congregational singing in worship. His influence is demonstrated not only in the hundreds of cantors, song leaders, teachers, singers and musicians who regularly teach and perform his songs, but in the thousands of students, campers and shul-goers who sing them.

The weekend began with the first of two workshops lead by Cantor Klepper – “Jewish Roots: A Hands-on Workshop” for TE musicians and musically enthusiastic TE members, followed by  Havdalah and a spirited concert with the Temple Emanuel Band. On Sunday morning, Cantor Klepper led the religious school families in song, and then presented his second workshop – “American Nusach: What is the Jewish Music of Today and Tomorrow?” for the adults in the congregation, during which he discussed interesting trends and ideas in modern Jewish music.

 

It was a memorable weekend of song, worship and study that helped to set the mood for the remainder of our 50th anniversary activities.

Temple Emanuel Celebrates it's 50th with a Gala

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What a wonderful weekend it was! We celebrated our 50th year in true Temple Emanuel style with singing, dancing, music, food and good friends.

We started the weekend with a special musical Kabbalat Shabbat service, featuring the TE Band and Rabbi Daniel Freelander of the URJ. Rabbi Freelander sang songs and recited prayers with us, and gave a thought-provoking dvar on the future of synagogue life. After the service, we enjoyed a delicious Oneg. Special thanks are due to Jimmy Shure for providing the “extra” funds needed for the event.

Sue Neufeld’s decorating team went into high gear at Racebrook Country Club, creating centerpieces for the gala dinner, arranging flowers and inflating balloons. Also on display for the evening were wonderful collages featuring five decades of photos and newspaper clippings, showcasing the history of TE with pictures of some who are no longer with us, pictures of those who don’t look like they once did, and pictures of those who have grown up in our midst.

AMAZING does not begin to describe the feeling of warmth and sense of community that we shared at the Gala Dinner on Saturday evening, as we laughed, danced, celebrated, re-connected with old friends and met people we had not met before. We enjoyed cocktails on the veranda to the music of the Jazzhouse Gang, before the program, emceed by Max Case, began in the ballroom. Highlights of the evening included Havdalah led by Rabbi Farbman and all of the assembled rabbis and cantors; welcome speeches by Lew Shaffer and Rabbi Farbman; personal reflections by Rabbis Mark Winer and Les Bronstein; and a candle lighting ceremony recognizing TE members from each decade. We were honored by proclamations and good wishes from Representative Rosa DeLauro, Mayor John DeStefano of New Haven and Senator Joe Lieberman; and an additional proclamation and reflection delivered in person by Senator Richard Blumenthal. The program continued with a preview of Nancy Weber’s wonderful video history of TE’s first half-century; and a commemorative song composed by Andrea Shiffrin and performed with the assistance of members of the TE Players.

The final segment of our Second Half-Century celebratory evening included an opportunity to view the entire TE video, as well as dancing to the music of DJ Rabbi Michael. Peter Olin kindly donated his skills and photographed the entire event.

You can see the photos here:

TE 50th Gala Pictures Part 1

TE 50th Gala Pictures Part 2

Rise, Melissa, Karen, Laurel and Betty wish to thank the entire TE family for making this such a wonderful event; truly, this was a night many of us will never forget!

 

 

Dayeinu – or What is Enough?

Passover is a time for getting in touch with our past. We look back at the history of our people; we remind ourselves where we came from – not just in one or two generations, but the very humble beginnings of our people. We remember slavery and its bitterness. We remember divine liberation and freedom. We remember that freedom required extraordinary events such as the sea parting – and extraordinary commitment from our ancestors, who had to make steps into the unknown from which there was no way back… We remember the suffering of others, not just our joy – and that is also the Jewish way…

We ask questions, not just four or five, but dozens, maybe even hundreds throughout the night. Some are trivial and others are profound, but it is the act of asking that matters the most, for it reminds us that we can never know it all, nor can we ever know too much of our own tradition and history. So we are commanded to keep the curiosity alive in ourselves and our children.

As we remember the slavery, we remind ourselves that the world we live in should be free of that plague; we re-dedicate ourselves to the great many issues that demand our attention in this world – freedom from oppression, end of human trafficking, end of modern slavery, end of hunger –  to name just a few. Each family will ask their own questions. Each one of us will be inspired by different passages from the haggadah or by different stories of people around the table.

One of my favorite passages in the haggadah is Dayeinu. Not just because of a great melody and the singing that comes with it, but because of the idea therein: even if we received fewer blessings, it would have been enough! Just freedom, without a chance of survival, would have been enough… Just survival without the land would have been enough… Just a chance to celebrate Shabbat or to have the wisdom of Torah would have been enough.

What an incredible concept! We live in a world in which nothing is ever enough. We ‘need’ bigger cars, better homes, more TV channels, latest gadgets – nothing is EVER enough for us. The world moves forward and so must we. There’s nothing wrong with that, don’t get me wrong – if we are not looking forward, we would never move forward. However, I love the idea of looking back, at least a few times a year, and having a chance to say, “Wow, look how far we have come!” and also “How blessed we are! Dayeinu…” As we celebrate the incredible festival of Passover this year, as we ask the questions and learn the answers, may we also find an opportunity to acknowledge where we are and to say ‘Dayeinu’.

Chag Pesach Kasher v’Sameach, a Happy Passover to you all!

OUR GALA WEEKEND IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER!!!

OUR GALA WEEKEND IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER!! Temple Emanuel’s 50th Anniversary Gala Weekend begins on Friday, May 11 at 8pm with Shabbat Services. Our guest speaker will be Rabbi Dan Freelander, Senior Vice President of the Union for Reform Judaism and a gifted musician. Saturday, May 12 brings the exciting, not-to-be missed Gala Dinner at Racebrook Country Club. Beginning at 7:30pm, we will enjoy cocktails and hors d’oeuvres while listening to live jazz, and have the opportunity to preview the TE 50TH Anniversary video and check out a large collection of TE memorabilia. After Havdalah we will be treated to a delicious kosher-style buffet (glatt Kosher and vegetarian meals are available upon request) followed by special celebratory cakes created by our own TE bakers. Other features of the evening include a history of TE in song – composed by Andrea Shiffrin – and dancing to music presented by our mystery DJ!

Don’t miss out on this wonderful weekend – RESERVE YOUR TICKETS NOW!

You can also download and print out the RSVP card here.