President’s Column (This one’s fortified!) March, 2013 By Bruce Spiewak, Temple Emanuel President

February was a month fraught with fabulous functions and events that filled the foundations of Temple Emanuel with fun-filled fortifications!  (Say that quickly three times.)

Bruce Spiewak On February 4, I attended a  Presidents’ Dinner in Fairfield CT, organized by Rabbi Sue Levi Elwell of the URJ.  It was a networking meeting to get to know, face to face, other Reform Synagogue Presidents (and other officers) in the area.  Including Rabbi Elwell, there were ten of us, representing Congregation B’Nai Israel (Bridgeport), Congregation Mishkan Israel (Hamden), Temple Shalom (Norwalk), and of course, Temple Emanuel.  We have gotten each others’ contact information for follow up discussions, and will have another group dinner in April.  This is an example of how we at TE are using the resources of the URJ to help us collect information about how to improve our synagogue.

On another front, as a direct result of our meeting in January with the New Haven Jewish Federation Leadership, as of February, TE will be participating in a Federation Synagogue Presidents’ meeting on March 5, to further pursue the concept of the Federation acting as a facilitator for a dialogue about resource sharing and symbiotic relationship building among congregations.  Hopefully this will result in a strengthening of individual synagogues as well as the greater synagogue community.

Our Dues Task Force is formulating a proposal for reorganizing the way we structure our congregation membership obligations in a way that will simplify and clarify the system while at the same time enhancing the financial sustainability of our future.  Hopefully the presentation of this proposal will also allow you to understand the basis for the decision to induce positive change.

Unfortunately, some of our February events had to be rearranged due to the blizzard which hit Connecticut the weekend of February 8-10.  Our Shabbat Friday evening service and Saturday Torah Study had to be cancelled, as was Sunday School.  The Divrei Laila program scheduled for Saturday evening was postponed.  The inability to leave our homes due to the heavy snowfall and difficulty of clearing the roads gave us all a clarified perspective on some of the things we normally take for granted, as well as a respect for priorities.  Luckily there was very little loss of power.  The cooperative spirit that I became aware of in the greater community reminded me of the same spirit that we enjoy at TE even when there is no emergency situation.  As one example, many neighbors reached out to others to either provide assistance or ask for assistance during and after the blizzard.

The Purim celebration, including the adult Purim Party and Purim Spiel, as well as the Purim for Kids of all Ages event planned for the end of February will happen after the writing of this column, and I anticipate that they will be great fun for all who participate and attend.  As you read this column, think back on the events and relate them to the spirit of cooperation displayed during the blizzard!  TempleEmanuel does not need a blizzard to develop a strong sense of community and caring – that’s part of our existence.  Join the party!  Shout “hineini!”

Temple Emanuel Celebrates Debbie Friedman z"l

“We must live for today, we must build for tomorrow. Give us time, give us strength, give us life…” (Lyrics from “And the Youth Shall See Visions” by Debbie Friedman, 1981.)

 IMG_0470On Sunday, January 27, Temple Emanuel celebrated the musical life and legacy of Debbie Friedman, z”l, a leading composer and performer of contemporary Jewish music, with a concert of her music and the music of others IMG_0425 - Version 2influenced by her work. Participants in the event included the children of the Temple Emanuel religious school, the newly formed TE Children’s Choir, directed by Anna Zonderman, and the TE Band, directed by Laurel Shader.

In addition to several iconic songs by Friedman, who died in 2011, the TE musicians performed tunes by such composers as Julie Silver, Dan Nichols, Craig Taubman, Jacob “Spike” Kraus, Stephen Schwartz and Peter and Ellen Allard. Rabbi Farbman explained how, as the first to bring a woman’s voice and perspective into late 20th century Jewish music, Friedman inspired two generations of musicians to write accessible songs combining liturgy and social commentary.

The concert was followed by a tasty TE oneg that also served as an introduction to a new fundraiser, “TE Bakes 4!” Stay tuned for upcoming music services with the TE Band, and services including the TE Children’s Choir.

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February President’s Column (This one’s getting its foundations strengthened!)

Bruce SpiewakA lot of exciting and stimulating events have been happening at TE and in our community in the last month.  I’ll try to give you some highlights here, but cannot include everything.

  • Aside from the usual Family Shabbat Friday evening service at the beginning of January, we had our “New” Shabbat Morning Torah Service.  This was a service that concentrated on the Torah reading and included interactive discussion among the congregants attending.  It was a very stimulating and enlightening educational experience. It is an event that will be continued periodically.
  • There was also an Adult Education class led by Tom Bleeks, held at the home of Ed Cantor and Rise’ Siegel.  “Living Jewishly – Reform Judaism and Halachah” was the topic of discussion.  Sign up for the next one if you missed the last one!  It is a great opportunity to mix education and social interaction in an informal setting.
  • The Social Action Committee’s second in the series “Divrei Laila” did instigate creative, thought provoking and respectful discussion on the history and complexity of the situation in Israel and how we relate to what is happening there.  Thanks to Debbie Elkin for inspiring it, Max Case (and his able assistant Samuel Farbman) for his skillful role as moderator, Jim Silk and Jim Graham for their inspiring and enlightening presentations, and the 30 +/- attendees who contributed many perspectives to the discussion.
  • There was weekly Torah study on Saturday mornings at the House Library with Rabbi Farbman.  All are welcome!  Sign up!
  • Social Action Community Service Committee sponsored the Social Justice Shabbat Service, which incorporated special readings by congregants of all ages and a short movie!
  • A new adult evening Haftarah class is off to a great start and is open to all!
  • TE Executive Board / Finance Committee Task Force members met with URJ Lay Leaders to discuss URJ resources and perspectives available to TE with respect to financial sustainability of congregations in the current economic climate.  A review of our dues structure is in process.  Stay tuned….
  • TE Executive Board members met with New Haven Jewish Federation Leadership for a discussion regarding the possibility of the Federation serving as a forum or facilitator for area congregations and agencies to dialogue about resource sharing and symbiotic relationship building, in this age of financial awareness. Stay tuned…
  • TE hosted the Debbie Friedman Memorial Concert, invited the Jewish Community to attend, and held a special bake sale.  The extraordinary TE Band and Children’s Choir were featured!

If any of this sounds intriguing to you, please consider this an invitation to attend events, participate in committee projects and otherwise increase your involvement in our vibrant TE community.  Again, many thanks to you all, who make these things possible!

Chag Purim Sameach!

Purim 2011As I write this column, the music from our 2nd Annual Debbie Friedman z’l memorial concert is still ringing in my ears – what an incredible event it was! I want to take this opportunity to once again thank all our wonderful musicians who dedicate their time and talents to the TE band which, under Laurel Shader’s remarkable leadership, continues to go from strength to strength! I also want to thank all the volunteers who made the event such a success, as well as all the TE bakers for a yummy reception!

This year’s calendar is quite unusual as many of the Jewish festivals seem to be falling earlier than many of us can remember! Purim in February, Passover in March, Erev Rosh Hashanah on September 4th (!), and Chanukah will begin the day before Thanksgiving! Just in case you are beginning to doubt if you have ever experienced Chanukah so early, do not be alarmed – you haven’t! It happened once before in 1888, and according to someone’s smart calculations, next time this will occur (if no adjustments are made to the Jewish calendar) will be in the year 79,811! So for all of you ‘once in a lifetime’ experience collectors, this is the one for the books J.

Chanukah may come early this year – but it is still a long way away! Purim, on the other hand, is coming up on February 23/24! Our multi-talented Chasen family is once again preparing an incredible celebration entitled “This is Purim.” If you are over 21, you do not want to miss this! The event is free this year, so please bring your friends and family, as well as anyone who is interested in Temple Emanuel.

Our adult Purim parties are notoriously fun, and we get to celebrate non-stop as we gather on Sunday morning, February 24th for a family Purim event as part of our religious school celebration. This year we will be joined by students and families from Congregation Sinai Hebrew School, and I want to encourage all TE members to bring their grandchildren (especially the ones who are not enrolled in our Hebrew school) in costume to join in the fun!

As we prepare to have lots of fun on Purim, I also want to encourage you to attend the Interfaith Scholar in Residence Learning Experience on March 10th.  This year Temple Emanuel is hosting this annual community event, and I hope many of our members will take part. And before you know it, Passover will be on our doorstep – please make sure you mark your calendars for the Annual TE 2nd Seder on Tuesday, March 26th. The flyers for both of these events are enclosed with the Shofar, so please register soon!

As you can see, the next few months at Temple Emanuel are packed with exciting events, as well as our regular services, educational programs and discussions. Be sure to check out all of these wonderful opportunities, and let me know what other ideas you might want to see come alive at Temple Emanuel.

B’shalom,

Rabbi Farbman.

Temple Emanuel goes to Israel!

Join Rabbi Michael Farbman and Temple Emanuel of Greater New Haven on a family friendly experience in
ISRAEL July 27, 2013— Aug. 9, 2013

On This Outstanding Journey, together we will…

  • Explore the many faces that make up Multicultural Israel
  • Enrich our knowledge of Jewish and Ancient History
  • Enjoy outdoor adventures and the beauty of the land itself
  • Encounter firsthand the Modern Miracle of the State of Israel
  • Immerse in Israeli Culture — Art, Food & Wine
  • Engage with the Progressive Community in Israel

Read the full itinerary and register today online at:

www.ayelet.com/FarbmanJuly2013.aspx

How do you view the map of Israel? January 12th – Divrei Laila – Night Commentaries – #2 !

Saturday evening, January 12, 7:30 pm in the Sanctuary, Temple Emanuel is holding the second in our Social Action Committee’s series of three Divrei Laila (English translation = Night Commentaries), with the goal of inspiring respectful discussion on issues that are important to us.  Our topic on Jan. 12 is “How do you view the map of Israel?”    We’re encouraging everyone to speak — all views are welcome! — for a maximum of 2 or 3 minutes each depending how many of us are there, signing up to speak.  Max Case has agreed to be the moderator, and Jim Graham and Jim Silk will be the first two speakers.   A number of different maps will be projected on a screen.  Our evening will start with Havdalah and end with dessert and discussion.  Come, speak, listen, and learn!  We hope to see you there.