TE AND JCARR – THE JEWISH COMMUNITY ALLIANCE FOR REFUGEE RESETTLEMENT

In 2015, Temple Emanuel joined with four other area synagogues and the Jewish Federation of Greater New Haven to form the Jewish Community Alliance for Refugee Resettlement (JCARR).

Welcoming refugees is intrinsically connected to our Jewish tradition. The Torah instructs us 36 times to care for the stranger — far more than it commands us to observe the Sabbath or any other law. For those involved in JCARR, the core Jewish value of Tikkun Olam, “repair the world,” compels us to take responsibility, to address social injustice, and to care for the other.

In partnership with Temple Emanuel in JCARR are Congregation Beth El-Keser Israel (Conservative), Congregation B’nai Jacob (Conservative), Congregation Mishkan Israel (Reform), and Congregation Or Shalom (Conservative). Our work is a unique opportunity for Jews from different congregations and denominations to unite around a common goal: to help new refugee and immigrant families resettle in our community. 

Family 2 – from Syria

JCARR will sponsor families from any country and any religion. JCARR has now resettled five families: one from the Democratic Republic of Congo, two from Syria, one from Iraq, and an asylum-seeking family from Angola. JCARR serves as a co-sponsor through IRIS, Integrated Refugee and Immigrant Services of New Haven. Our efforts have been recognized as a model both of community co-sponsorship and of collaboration among synagogues. 

Family 3 – from Syria

JCARR has scores of volunteers who work with task forces to find affordable housing, furnish and supply the home, and collect clothing.  JCARR volunteers meet the new families, offer them a warm welcome, and provide a warm, culturally appropriate meal in their new home upon their arrival. We help them enroll in English classes, organize tutors, register children for school, learn to use public transportation, navigate the American health-care system, and find jobs. Volunteers have taught them to drive and helped them get drivers licenses, for some of the women, for the first time in their lives! In some cases, JCARR obtained a donated car for new families.

Family 4 – from Iraq

The COVID-19 pandemic has affected JCARR families significantly.  Parents’ work hours have diminished and so has their income. Children are attending school online and unable to participate in extra-curricular activities. JCARR families may be suffering trauma anew, and JCARR is working to respond to their exceptional needs during this crisis. The situation has called for us to dig deep and become our best selves, and do more than we thought possible. JCARR models how a community can turn concern into action. JCARR demonstrates how people can form partnerships, and turn sad stories into success stories.

Family 5 – from Angola

The COVID pandemic shines a spotlight on those who are too easily left behind, and makes refugee resettlement efforts around the world even more imperative. Helping refugees in our community gives us a feeling of HOPE and a meaningful way to participate in Repair of the World.  

To make an online donation, go to: https://jewishnewhaven.org/refugee-resettlement/give  Or, send checks payable to The Jewish Federation, with JCARR in the memo line, to The Jewish Federation, Attention Amy Holtz, 360 Amity Road, Woodbridge 06525. We greatly appreciate your generous donations!

Jean Silk, a member of Temple Emanuel, serves as Coordinator of JCARR. For information, contact her at jsilk@jewishnewhaven.org

High Holy Days 5781 (2020)

High Holy Days 5781 (2020) will be the most unprecedented – not just in recent history, but perhaps in the entire Jewish history. Yes, pandemics and wars have happened before, preventing Jews from celebrating the Chagim in the traditional manner, but they have never affected all the Jews all over the world at the same time, and, most importantly, we didn’t have the technology that would allow us to successfully celebrate the chagim as a community despite being unable to gather in person!

Yes, this year’s High Holy Days at Temple Emanuel will be celebrated online. Yes, it will be quite different. Yes, we don’t like this either! But if these last few months have taught us anything, we know we yearn to be together, and we CAN be together online! In the coming weeks you will be receiving emails with links for the services and instructions on how to prepare. In the meantime, here are the times and dates of all the services that will take place this year, please make a note of the times, some of which may be a little different than usual. Please note that in place of our wonderful Children’s services we will have Family services in the afternoon of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. We also hope, weather and pandemic permitting, to gather outside for Tashlich on the second day of Rosh Hashanah.

The High Holy Days will be different, that much we know. But we also know that they will be special, as always. I can’t wait to see you all and celebrate these most special and sacred days – together, while being apart.

Shanah Tovah!

Joint URJ Selichot service (online) Saturday, Sept 12 @ 7.00pm

Erev Rosh Hashanah Friday, Sept 18 @ 7:00 PM

Rosh Hashanah I day Saturday, Sept 19 @ 10 am
Rosh Hashanah Family Service @ 3:00 PM

Rosh Hashanah II day Sunday, Sep 20 @ 10 am
Tashlich Sunday, Sep 20 3:00 PM

Kol Nidrei (Erev Yom Kippur) Sunday, Sep 27 @ 8pm

Yom Kippur Morning Monday, Sep 28 @ 10 am
Yom Kippur Family Service @ 3:00 PM
YK Study Session: with Bennett Graff @ 1:00 PM
Yom Kippur Mincha @ 4:30 PM
Yizkor, Neila and Havdalah Monday, Sep 28 @ 6:00 PM

Erev Sukkot Friday, Oct 2 @ 6:30 PM

Erev Simchat Torah Friday, Oct 9 @ 6:00 PM

Throughout the Festival services we will be using the visual tefilah, the words of the prayers will appear right on your screen. In addition, our movement has created a flip-book of the Machzor which you can access for free from any internet-enabled device.

Rosh Hashanah services can be found here

Yom Kippur services can be found here.

In addition, the digital version of the new machzor has been heavily discounted this year, you may want to purchase your own copy here.

Important information about the High Holy Days 2020

As summer days begin to grow shorter, it is time to start thinking about the upcoming High Holy Days. The COVID pandemic has been a great disrupter for all of us, as we try to figure out how to live our lives while staying safe. Over the past few months I pulled together a task force to consider the best option for observing the High Holy Days at Temple Emanuel this year. We spent time considering multiple scenarios and made the difficult decision that the safest, most responsible choice is to hold all our services online. While we are sad to be making this choice, the health and safety of our members and clergy is our number one priority.
There are many things we will miss this year – gathering with the entire congregation in one space, greeting those we see only once a year, watching the children as they show us what they created in their children’s services, joining together for a festive meal. But we are lucky to have technology available to allow us to pray together yet separate, to maintain many of our traditions and perhaps to create some new ones. 
The Rabbi is working hard with a dedicated High Holy Days preparation team to make these holiday services as meaningful as always. During this time of uncertainty, stress and isolation for many, it is even more important that we gather together as a community and support each other, as we examine the year that has passed and imagine how we can recreate ourselves and the world around us. 
We want to make sure that every member of Temple Emanuel can access our services this year. If you have any concerns about accessing our festival services online or know anyone else who might have a problem doing so, please contact me, the Rabbi or Ruth in the office. As the holidays approach we will send out further information about each service, including the children’s services.
This year, while we can’t gather in person with friends or family, we can use technology to join with those dear to our hearts, whether they live in our community or are many miles away. The TE Board of Directors has decided to open our virtual doors to welcome all guests, near or far, to join in our services this year. Further information will be coming soon on how guests can register for our online High Holy Day services. 
I hope all of you stay safe and healthy and enjoy the rest of the summer. 


Robin Levine-Ritterman, President

Temple Emanuel School Expansion

Our TE religious school is growing! Come any Sunday morning to the Asefah where students and parents gather, sing and study together. The kids are excited to be there, the parents are engaged, and Jewish learning is a truly joyous experience.

Though our new school building is only 5 years old, we need additional classrooms to accommodate our growing enrollment. This year, all 4 classrooms and the library were occupied, and every nook and cranny of the building is being used as additional classroom space.

Dave Pokras, an architect and a member of TE, designed a plan to add 2 classrooms behind the long wall of the social hall, accessed by a door near the kitchen end of the swing space. Construction has just begun and our hope is to have it completed before the next school year begins.

Fundraising is off to a great start – we need to raise $250,000, and 75% of the total has already been pledged by several very generous members! This leaves a balance of about $60,000 to get to our goal.

Our school is our synagogue’s vanguard. The wonderful children who come to school each week are our future, and the future of the Jewish people. This project is not only a school project – it is our commitment to the future of Temple Emanuel, and the future of our people.

We hope you will be generous, and feel the excitement that Rabbi Farbman, our Religious School director Olga Markus, our teachers and leadership bring to this effort. Our TE school is now well known throughout the community – and we are assuring its continued growth and success.
Thank You!!!

I would like to support the TE campaign for expanding our school!

A brief video from ground breaking ceremony on May 3rd

Shabbat on the Beach, August 30 at 6pm

Our ‘Shabbat under the stars’ services are always a great opportunity to enjoy the beautiful TE grounds and be outside. This year, we continue the wonderful new tradition that began a few years ago: Shabbat on the beach! On August 30 at 6pm head over to the Walnut Beach in Milford (113 E Broadway, Milford, CT 06460) – don’t forget a beach blanket or a chair, and bug repellent just in case! We will sing together and greet shabbat by the water. Please spread the word and invite your family and friends to join us!

P.S. If it rains, Shabbat services will be at Temple Emanuel – but we hope for a beautiful night under the stars!

Family Shabbat Potluck Dinner (Dairy), May 10, 2019, 6pm

Share a potluck Shabbat meal with family and friends! Unwind at the end of the week, and welcome Shabbat with your extended Temple Emanuel Family.
A Tot Shabbat service for families with kids under 5 is at 5:30pm, and a main Shabbat service will begin at 7:30pm – you are welcome to either, or just come and share the meal! Please sign up for potluck – follow the link!

CELEBRATE PURIM, Wednesday, March 20th.

Celebrate Purim with TE Hebrew School 4:30-6:00

¤Hamentaschen baking!
¤A crazy Purim Spiel with audience participation!
¤Purim costume parade!

Get creative with your costumes and win a prize!

Community-wide Megillah reading 6:00 pm

¤Bring a box of pasta to use as a grogger on Wed, March 20th.

¤ On Wednesday, March 20th, and Friday, March 22nd, we will be collecting boxes of pasta, pasta sauce and canned vegetables to donate to Beth-El Center in Milford. Beth-El provides shelter and food services for homeless people.

ADULT PURIM PARTY: SATURDAY, MARCH 23 @ 7pm

Purim fun is not just for kids!

Come and join the TE family for a NO THEME PURIM PARTY! Dress up in your wildest costume, crazy hat or silly outfit and compete to win the Best Costume Competition! Festivities begin at 7:00 pm
BYOBeverage and NUT FREE Snacks. ¨Entertainment by the renowned TE DJ, Jeff Levinson. Join in the Karaoke Competition, dancing, activities and much more fun!

The event is FREE but we ask you to register in advance.

We plan to offer 2-3 FREE slumber parties where parents can leave their little ones if they have a problem securing a sitter (with Madrichim support). *If you plan to use the slumber party services, please be sure to let us know in advance so that we can plan accordingly (how many children and what ages?)

TE’s First Night Passover Seder, Friday April 19, 2019 at 6:30 pm

Please sign up by April 12th!!!

And you shall observe the Feast of Unleavened Bread, for on this very day I brought your hosts out of the land of Egypt.  Therefore you shall observe this day, throughout your generations, as a statute forever.-Exodus 12:17

According to the Jewish tradition, one of the greatest mitzvot (commandments) of Passover is to celebrate this ancient biblical holiday with a Seder – a special gathering that brings together our history, heritage, and modern observances that are meaningful and relevant to us today. It is the time when Jews are getting together to read the Haggadah, perform rituals, sing, have fun, and of course EAT!

Join our extended Temple Emanuel family to celebrate the First Night Passover Seder on Friday, April 19th. Members & non-members are welcome!

Please do not let the cost of the dinner prevent you and your family from attending the Seder – speak to Rabbi Farbman confidentially.